How little language mistakes can cause you big embarrassment!
Don’t YOU appreciate when people point out your wrong word mistakes? – discreetly of course!
I am eternally grateful to a French waiter who corrected me about my French pronunciation and choosing a similar-sounding word – but the WRONG word!
I was working as a piano-vocalist in an elegant fine dining restaurant.
I was singing songs in French and I thought I was so classy and cool and cosmopolitan .
In reality – I was embarrassing myself to anyone who spoke French.
And it all came down to how I pronounced a vowel sound.
I was supposed to be singing “pourtant” (however or still) but they way I pronounced it sounded like a less formal French word that means “prostitute”. So in this elegant restaurant I am proudly singing “PROSTITUTE”.
I am very grateful to that waiter – and that’s why I am very understanding when people from different backgrounds choose the wrong word or mispronounce words in English.
It can be dangerous when you know a little about a language – but you get “the little things” wrong – like choosing a similar word (but the WRONG word) or using it in the wrong context!
These days I help business people choose the right words – especially people from non-English backgrounds trying to speak effective business English.
Many speakers or writers think they are doing a great job (as I did when I was singing in French).
I was blissfully unaware of the “danger” and embarrassment – until someone pointed it out to me.
Often just a little mispronunciation mistake or word choice mistake can make a big and sometimes very embarrassing difference!
Do YOU have any similar miscommunication examples?
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Let’s help others from embarrassing themselves! English can be such a confusing language!
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